Hi Anita,
Could you clarify what you mean by “Regarding your ex boyfriend, it just so happens your mother is correct, if I may say so. Hey, even a broken clock is correct twice every 24 hours, so it is.”
And
“As a rescuer (your word), best you rescue yourself. So this boyfriend texting his ex, repeatedly, didn’t want a friendship with you. He wanted (a month ago) a physical relationship or nothing at all; he said he won’t wait. So he is back with flowers. Still not wanting to be just friends; still not willing to wait?”