Dear northstar76:

It is something to look into, why you didn’t have a relationship that lasted more than a year. Reads to me like you have no idea why that is and why the last boyfriend broke up with you.

If you’d like to look into it, let’s do it. It will take some time as we look here, look there until we find a possible answer. Here is a possible place to look: you wrote that in all the relationships you were dumped except for one.

That one relationship where you dumped the guy: why did you dump him/ what was that relationship like?

anita