Dear eversam2:

Clearly, to me, there needs to be absolutely no contact between you and the mother-in-law (mil), and no contact between your children and the mil. Clearly, the mil should have no access to your home/ property. She must not be in their lives or in your life- regardless what your husband says. Your safety and your children’s safety (physical and emotional) need to be non-negotiable.

It is a shame your husband takes her side and yells and cusses at you (like his mother)- he needs to stop it.

Is your husband pressuring you to have his mother in your life and in the children’s lives? What does he want to happen next?

anita