Hi everyone. My boyfriend just broke up with me a week ago.
We’ve been together almost a year. We’re different nationalities so it’s expected that we had a lot of differences. We met when he studied in my country for 4 months and we met on the first month coincidentally and I immediately felt an attraction to him. We became friends and hang out and he asked me to be his girlfriend on his 3rd month. He admitted that I was his first girlfriend that he was comfortable with that he didn’t have to pretend and he can be himself. He had 2 ex GFS from HS but the 2nd one lasted 3 years although they became LDR and both ex gf broke up with him. He loved me a lot I felt that. When I tried to break up before cause I got insecure of the distance he keeps calling and begging me not to leave and when I make a mistake and he try to break up I also try to convince him that we can still save the relationship. I was negative before and he helped me to become better and I did my best to support him. He left my country to study university abroad and we had a lot of fights and misunderstandings but eventually we always fixed it cause we don’t want to break up although we have said it a few times when we fight then he came back after 6 months he was supposed to be here for 2 months and we moved in together we were so happy but we started arguing again. There are times when it got physical but we always tried to reconcile and make things better. After two months together he decided to stay and study in my country instead and I was so happy but we had to separate. He needed to save money so he got a job with free accommodation so that he doesn’t need to pay and he can save the money for college since his parents won’t support him a lot anymore because they are against his decision of staying here. I lived with my dad again while he stayed in a city an hour or two away with some roomates. During his two months here we traveled a lot. He met my family and we had many memories. He always tells me that no one can compare to me even though there are many girls out there and that he will never lose me. And he loves me. I did my best to take care of him but when we separated he got kinda busy with his job but he tried to find the time to visit my house so he can relax. He always tells me that I’m the best but I’m annoying sometimes. He says this because if we argue I always try to fix while he try to avoid talking about it so becomes annoyed and when we fought I always tty to talk to him first and fix it. But when we have small arguments he tried to break up with me because he said he doesn’t like my personality. I begged him not leave and he gave me another chance then a week ago he stayed in my house for a week and everything was great. We traveled a lot and spent a lot of time. Until on the last night he slept there we had an argument about something small and he reacted so rude so I kept saying you don’t need to act like that but he keeps telling me to stop talking and I never changed. Then that night he didn’t want m to touch him so I let him be an I apologized and hugged him. The next day we were totally fine. He’s leaving afternoon and I made him breakfast, we cuddled, talked , laughed and even made love. Then he left and told me he’ll be back by Sunday again and even left some stuff. Then that night I noticed he blocked my Instagram on both accounts and I wanted to talk to him about my new job so i asked him to call but he keeps saying why I need to call and he straight up just texted goodnight and nothing else even I waited for him to call so I tried to call him a few times and he got annoyed and said he gave me a last chance I didn’t change and bye then he blocked my everything so there’s no way for me to contact him at all. I have one of his Instagram accounts password he uses two accounts one for personal and other for the blog I have the personal one and I unlocked myself to send him a message. A lot of messages actually I begged him to talk to me at least but he just deleted them and didn’t even read. The next day he sent me one message saying sorry that he can’t accept my personality and he can continue the relationship but he can’t see a future with me anymore. He always says these things when we fight and he said thanks for long time being together. Then he deleted all our pictures and still blocked me. The next day he deleted his personal account and I was so confused why when he could’ve just changed the password. That was important to him so I wonder why he’s so bitter. Then he went to sleep over his friends house for two days still avoiding contact with me and rejected every move that I made. I felt so depressed I loved this guy so much and did everything I could the only problem was that he said it’s my personality but honestly I always try to lower my pride when we fight. I wanna get him back but he seems to be done with me. He’s never done any of this before when we fought. He cut me off on everything. I don’t understand why he had to break up through text and avoid to talk to me then totally cut me off even after i gave up trying to convince him I told him I respect his decision. I don’t understand why it was too easy for him I knew he loved me a lot then suddenly it was so cold and he left so easy. He broke all his promises please help me.