Dear Des,

It takes a lot of guts to admit our weaknesses, even the ugly ones.

I know it is not what people like to hear, but you really do have to start with yourself. You want to bring a healed self, your own self that you love yourself–you want to bring THAT person to any future relationship.

But this kind of journey and work–to heal and be with oneself–takes more patience than most people are willing for. They would rather get in the rush of a relationship and go through that drama and break themselves and the other person more.

But maybe you are up for it now? The journey of self love and self healing?

Let the woman go, bless her, but let her go.

Respect
~Jennifer