Hi Anita,

Thanks for looking into the situation for me. Yeah there was no discussion once he started saying stuff to piss me off. Even If we knew someone is wrong, its always good to use win-win situation to explain and make them feel comfortable (that’s what i would do). In this conversation we had, it was not about me or him but he made it personal by calling me ignorant and the fact i dunno anything. Why this bothered me is, I have been playback singing for 20 years, i have been in the industry till my 26 years of age giving lots of concerts, I still sing but my business had been my priority so when he said those things he knew i would get hurt and that’s why he said it i guess. And I came here because i wasn’t able to take it off my mind i don’t wanna go back and explain him that i got hurt because i really don’t wanna engage in a conversation with a person who hurts me. As u already knew, I lack assertiveness i would after sometime i will forget that he was the one who hurt me and would think i am the reason for this whole fight and would try to convince him. After your suggestion about being assertive (in the past posts) i am practicing to be strong on whatever decision i take. Thanks again for your valuable time!