Dear idontknow:

You “projects have only beginning and middle”- but no endings- could it be because if they had endings they will be judged negatively, getting a bad grade, a Fail, maybe? Could it be you avoiding being judged to be not-good-enough?

Your values of life, beliefs, songs, hobbies, people, sexuality, thoughts, ideas” keep changing- could it be you running away from detection, as in: I like X, but before you tell me I am wrong for liking X, guess what? I don’t like X anymore. I like Y now. But.. before you pronounce me wrong for liking Y, I no longer do.

Anything like that?

anita