Dear hannahl:

The statistical chances for a LDR surviving are low- it was likely to end regardless of how you acted and what you said. The fact that you knew each other only 3 months before going LDR reduced the chances. When one of the participants in a LDR is outgoing, meets lots of people through work or otherwise, the survival chances are further reduced, by a lot.

I wouldn’t have been able to maintain a LDR myself.

About having him gone from your life forever- think of it this way: the forever from now on is like the forever before you met him. You lived Before you met him and you will live now and onward.

Your pain will ease, with time. This pain is not deadly. Please don’t add to it with regrets- like I wrote, no matter how you behaved, what you said and how you said what you said to him- the statistical chances were very low.

It is the attachment that hurts so much. If you read this soon after I post it, please write more. I am concerned.

anita