Dear heartbrokengirl:

I would suggest you don’t let your fear of not being a wife and a mother lead you to your ex boyfriend’s parents’ home for another try. He seems to be fine with the breakup, not pursuing you at all, not trying… at all- I wouldn’t go pursuing him yet again.

Lots of people do not like online dating, had bad experiences, so I am hesitant to suggest it yet again. I had a very good experience with online dating that resulted in marriage. If you are in a hurry to find a partner, I can’t think of a better and faster way than online dating because (if you live in a big enough urban area) there is no other way to meet the greatest number of men to evaluate and choose from. You can use online dating to interview men first online and then in casual settings like a coffee house, in the middle of the day (non working days). I can go on, but let me know if you are interested in more.

anita