Why did he tell you that “he loves me more then anything and misses me like crazy and how he thinks of me every min” right before he said the above?

It is surprising how little the role of the ‘idea of Love’ plays in a discussion to end a relationships or not.
Two people can authentically love each other and still have the relationship end.

Without love a relationship is sure to fail but even where there is love a relationship is not assured, in fact love my require that it end.

I know that doesn’t help. Its one of the paradoxes of love I struggle with most… and as the song goes… What’s love got to do with it…

My conclusion, on one plain everything and on another level nothing, and both coexist at the same time, in the same moment, as everything is Love…