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Hmm, I think she did, but in retrospect it’s hard to say what she felt for me. She was in a bad situation at the beginning, she wanted out of a bad family situation, I took her out and then it became one thing after the other. I think she did care for me, but I think I wasn’t what she wanted me to be. She had a lot of insecurities and needed a lot of validation that I don’t think I was able to constantly give her. And so she took it as me not loving her how I was supposed to. I asked her why she stayed with me so long at the end, she said it was convenient for her. I certainly have my flaws and take responsibility for our issues. But I don’t think anything could justify what she did to me. I don’t believe I lead her to being that way, I could have loved anyone the same way, I’m capable of putting my heart into a relationship fully. And I did. I loved her unconditionally. But her expectations perhaps were not realistic, and even then I went above and beyond in many ways.