Dear chiclyme:

I concur with the part of you that thinks you should let go and move on.

Your heart, you wrote, is holding on to “the promises and memories”-

But if the maker of the promises is not holding on to his made promises, those promises are shattered, even if your heart keeps holding on to them. And your memories- remember everything, not just the feel-good times, and you will feel better about moving on.

* Regarding your suicide threat, well, it was the wrong move, but don’t let it stop you for doing the RIGHT thing, which is still, to keep this relationship where it belongs, in the past.

anita