Dear spring0108:

I think photos and posts on Facebook (I don’t have an account there) are often misleading. What you see in a photo is a part of a second of a person’s life, smiling and looking happy. You don’t see the person for the rest of that second, the minute after, hour, day. And that smile might not sincere even during that split second.I read again and again, that people try to impress others on Facebook, trying to “look good.” – do I wouldn’t put much credence in what you see there.

You wrote that you loved three times but in all three times you were not loved back. Why do you think that is, any ideas?

If you have no idea, and you would like to examine one of the relationships, the most recent, perhaps, do share about it: how long did you date him, did you live together, how did he behave toward you at first, when did he become verbally abusive? How did you react to his verbal abuse? What was the nature of the relationship, etc. How did it end, who initiated the breakup…?

anita