Dear stardusted1:

“Stay or go?”- I say: go.

If you could turn time back to when you were 14, would you get into a relationship with him? For a year? Five? Ten? If the answer is NO, you wouldn’t get into a relationship with him for five or ten years, then leave him now.

If sacrificing for him so far was the wrong thing for you to do, then MORE sacrifice is still the wrong thing for you to do.

The choice is not between him and the other guy you met. There are other options, other men you are still to meet. You have a life to live, make it your own. Never again to sacrifice for another.

anita