Hello,

This means that you are taking it too personally and turning it into a source of frustration. As Anita rightly pointed out, patience is key.

The question of why it’s there and whether it’s just a normal thing.

A part of it is normal. We humans like a sense of validation and achievement. We want to see our work being of use to others.

So it is normal to feel a bit impatient when we see people not following things and still struggling. We have already embarked on our own journey, done the work and now want others to enjoy the benefits too of starting positive changes. So the impatience comes when they don’t and their words sound more like excuses.

But like us at one point, they too are going at their own pace and will come through with proper guidance. Accepting this and nudging them is what is needed rather than feeling bad.

Frustration is a strong word though. Yes it can irritate but frustrate happens when we begin to question our effectiveness and worth in terms of how well our suggestions are being taken.

I am not sure which is the case in your situation but either way, more patience is needed for yourself and the clients.

Regards
Nina