Dear zobyt07:

Reads to me that your ex boyfriend’s dislike of his mother is intense. It means his relationship with her has been disturbing and distressing to him, probably since childhood. Maybe he projected her into you, got angry at you and lashed out at you with his offensive declaration that he is wasting his time with you. Maybe he is not capable of having a heathy relationship with a woman.

In your original post, you wrote: “there is something inherently wrong with me.” In your last post you asked: “How can I fix what’s wrong with me?”

This core belief, that there is something inherently wrong with you has been in existence before you met this man . It has its origin in your childhood, doesn’t it? How did this belief come about?

anita