Dear heartbrokengurl:

Good to read from you again. Congratulations for moving to your own apartment.

Here is what you will NOT be experiencing in your apartment because you are no longer in a relationship with your ex: no fights, no one losing his temper over simple things. And you can walk carelessly, not careful, like on eggshells.

From your previous posts: “He will pick fights, and lose his temper over very simple things, and its like walking on eggshells…I dont know what is going to set him off…His bad qualities…picking fights, his temper, walking on eggshells), I don’t miss at all.”

He was affectionate and pleasant at times and you miss those things. As you walk selectively-positive-memory lane, watch your step… ooops, a broken egg, yolk and all, gooey.

Do your best to enjoy your new apartment and the great location. Do post again, anytime.

anita