i had a bad break up 2 years ago and in some ways i still have some issues….so my online date was moving to fast, and instead of telling him i also moved fast with him because it felt “right”.

now, when we met in person, i was not attracted to him physically, so i told him that i did not see a connection between us in person, that our chemistry was better online then offline….

then i realized that one date was probably not enough and that maybe i should give it another chance, so i asked him what he thought about proceeding to a second date and seeing if we were indeed a good match…

then he went back and forth changing his mind. he said he really likes me but doesnt know if after what i said he could ever see me again. then he says yes i can see you, then 5 seconds later he says we should just be friends