Dear Penelope Jones:

Maybe if you had a longer, in-person relationship with a man, then it will make sense for him to consider your after thoughts about what you expressed to the man. But it was a short, online, mostly communication and so your rejection message means more.

It is also possible that even if he had a longer term, in person relationship with you, he would still not re-consider following a rejection. I don’t know him.

I hope you can let it go. It could be that you are motivated to hold o to his unwillingness to reconsider because of previously being “unforgiven” for mistakes, or so…

anita