Dear Jacqui:

I think it is better that you respect his choice to end this new relationship. When you beg and plead and try to convince him, promise him he will not regret it if he changes his mind (something you cannot responsibly promise!), when you do all these things you are disrespecting him.

Respect his choice and in so doing, you will be respecting him.  For as long as you disrespect him, a healthy relationship is not possible, even if he gave in to your pressures, your forceful, disrespectful stubbornness.

anita