i guess what i am saying is just based on all my past relationships or dates, i would say most if not all guys wanted to see me soon after the first date and they would always drive to me. im not saying i never drove to them but i feel like at first during the dating period the guy should court you. perhaps i was raised with very traditional thinking, but i respects others views on this and this is just my view, my values, my traditions. I dont “expect” him to drop everything for me, i just expect him to show some interest…in 3 weeks a lot can happen. I am actually talking to 2 guys at the moment who i already made plans to see this week. im just confused as to why he is not thinking about this…and yes i rejected him at first but then we agreed to see each other and then he rejected me 2 times after that, so we are on friendly terms now. We still want to tray but this is just i dont know.  why do you think something is wrong with me though???