Dear Niki:

He is 24, lives and works from home so to take care of his paralyzed grandfather as well as financially support his parents. His parents were unhappy that he went on a date because they want him at home all the time. Am I correct?

You wrote: “I cannot resent him for making the decision that he did because I would have done the same.”-

Do you mean that you believe it is right to keep a young person enslaved to his/ her parents and grandfather?

If you believe that, for how long is it right to keep a young person at home to take care of his elders?

anita