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Dear Josh:
I suggest using a dating website for the process interviewing women for the position of a girlfriend because you clearly need a girlfriend/ partner and the time to interview is now because you are still attached to your ex. This means you are not inclined to get quickly attached to another woman (doesn’t it?), which means you can be objective while interviewing and evaluating other women. This objectivity is very important.
If you interview women now, then select those to proceed for the next level of interviewing, learning WHO the women are, proceeding with the selection and eliminating process, all while you are not attached to any one woman, you will be able to maximize your chances to “hire” a compatible-to-you woman, a woman you know and approve of, the… best woman for the job.
anita