Dear Phyllis:

I just re-read your original thread and it seems to me that you are having a difficulty knowing when you are loved and when you are not. When the guy told you that he loved you, you were shocked and an argument followed. It is as if you believed him and didn’t believe him at the same time.

You wrote in your last post that you have a hard time letting love- if you can’t identify it as love, confidently enough, how can you let it in…?

anita