Dear Jay:

I am thinking you better choose future friends and future boyfriends better- these two were not good choices. Get to know a person thoroughly before trusting him or her. Be selective. And so, protect yourself from such heartaches as this thread is about.

Learn from this experience and once you learn from it, it will be possible for you to let it go. Look back at who each one of them was, what kind of a person each is. From your description of her and from your very last post quote of what he said to you- neither one sounds to me like a good choice of a friend/ boyfriend.

anita