Hi Inky,

I’ve had those very thoughts myself, but it all gets confusing when I think of that this might change. What if I’m more attracted to her once she has gained weight? The thing that makes all of this so confusing is that whatever it is that is lacking might come to me later if she gains weight.

Also, I love the tone of your messages and the over all sense of calm, insight and warmth that is present in these forums. I’ve read multiple threads on here before creating my account and I really like it here. Thank you both for trying to help me out.