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Oh my, both your best friend and potential boyfriend did you such a favour!
Can you imagine what the life with the potential boyfriend would have been like with “‘if you were indeed L’s best friend, as you claim to be, then you would have supported her, no matter what she did.’”
You dodged a bullet my friend!
I understand these sorts of situations can be painful and can be hard to forgive, but I have learnt the value of “what can I learn from this situation and how can I grow and become a better person from it and not make the same mistake again?”
Now you have a clean slate to find a better “close friend” and you can look for a partner that has strong morals and values. Trust me when you start looking at it as a blessing you will be surprised how much better you feel.