Oh please, please, my darling girl, do not ever contact this man again. He is a predator, a user and a bully. He has manipulated you, a girl much younger than himself, and who had no defence against such a dark person. He has taken advantage of your younger years to manipulate you into doing things you don’t want to do. By any and every means possible for him to use.

Stay single for a while. Get to know yourself through yourself. You are terribly young, and you will get over this. This man has been selfishly manipulating you and you have been brainwashed into not being true to yourself. Your family only see the best side of him, you know differently. Take no notice of what your family thinks, you know this man better than they ever will.

He is a predator and he has stalked and groomed you. There are laws against that.

Of course you will meet someone much better! Don’t even doubt it. You are not alone just because you don’t have a man. You have friends, you have family. Your family will get over it in time, and in time you will maybe be able to tell them what he was really like, and how he treated you. Until that time, be true to yourself. You will eventually find someone who will love, honour and respect you.

~With best wishes and sending you love and light.

jayJay.