Dear Carey Bounds,

You did the proper thing!

You presented your feelings and ideas in a rational way and even waited, and waited, and waited for a response, acknowledgement, or progression only to be left idly waiting.  Even if “Mr. Great for the most part” didn’t want to move in or had a different plan he never presented it to you (or he may have, not sure only you know) but clearly enough lack luster was present for you to make an informed and direct action.   If he has a change of heart or a moment of clarity, would you conciser rekindling?  That’s the true question, if the answer is yes, you two have some unfinished business, if no…..well then your actions are well founded.

As for him living with is ex for such an extended period, I cannot stress this enough, DO NOT INTERNALIZE THAT! As an outsider, that seem more a convenience (dare I say crutch….) than a solution or an expression of independence.

Carey Bounds, I think you did the absolute right thing!