Dear Tessa:

You make a lot of sense. There is no perfect solution to your struggles, meaning, you can’t fix your mother and sisters or even your father (cause him to not put things off). And you cannot not feel guilty (for as long as you do). But you can be sane, as you are being. You can be sane and strong in these circumstances.

Being sane, knowing you function well in your less than favorable circumstances, will build your confidence and strength, your faith in your ability to function well in difficult circumstances.

anita