Dear Adele:

You wrote that you’ve always been attracted to “good looking bad boys”-

that attraction didn’t serve you well, correct? This in itself, if it does you a disservice, is a problem, regardless of the current relationship. Can you elaborate on the “bad boy” behavior you feel attracted to?

Regarding your current relationship, you wrote: “He’s way too nice”- can you elaborate on that, give examples?

You wrote that you don’t show him much affection and clearly you are very ambivalent about being with him, yet he is moving forward with you, wanting to move in with you. I assume this means he is not aware of your lack of attraction to him, your ambivalence. Is it that you hide it well or is it that he doesn’t see what is in front of him?

anita