Hi Anita,

Thanks so much for your comment. Yes, it will take time back home also, however I won’t mind being back there so the time doesn’t matter so much. When I moved to this country it was a big step and I know many people thought we were doing this great thing in our lives, and so did we. I am pleased to have had this experience and very grateful that I have the opportunity in my life as so many others don’t get that, however my main issue I guess in a nutshell, is that my partner wants to stay, and I don’t. Which is why when I say deep down I don’t want to be here, as it’s hard to be 100% honest about the fact that I know I have to leave and potentially leave my partner here. I guess Im stuck as I dont know if I should leave and potentially lose everything we have built together- I just wondered if others had similar experiences and what the outcome was- thanks