Dear Lester:

My advice: now that you have a girlfriend, and for as long as you do, no longer try to make new friends that are girls, do not make new plans to meet the girls you did befriend (not without your girlfriend), kindly cancel he road trip with the one girl,  the date with the second, and stop the text messages with the third.

If you are not in a relationship, in the future, you can go back to the contacts you made. While you are in a relationship, don’t destroy the one you have for the contacts you made.

I wouldn’t tell Bre about this and focus instead, on your career when you are working and on your new relationship, separately.

anita