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May 22, 2017 at 12:58 pm
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laelithia
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Hi Anita,
I’ve been giving it some thought, and it does seem somehow that I’ve told myself that I can’t be loved. I don’t know why or when this happened, but it’s felt true for a while. I think how I’m feeling now is the result of finally believing that it was possible for me to be loved, that someone I really wanted also wanted me too, and then just as quickly it was all gone.
I truly do want to move past this, to focus on reality rather than a fantasy. Is that why you suggested I meet with him in a different context, to see it things clearly as they are now?