Anita,

Thank you, i agree. I somewhat believe this needed to happen (minus the cheating) because i agree, i was too close with his family and he probably viewed me as a member of it. With all of us on his back i was the only one he could cut, so he did. I think we both need to be apart and mature and find ourselves and experience single adult life before getting married , which was our next step. I personally have grown 100% and learned things about myself. Ive become more confident , outgoing, and met so many new people. I also have learned to have more empathy for others and have become a nicer person. I try my hardest to live my happy life and move forward but i still get sad at times looking back. I just hope that maybe one day when he’s matured and found himself he’ll choose to be with me, and we can come together stronger and ready to have a healthy relationship after getting to experience life apart from each other. I think us being together since so young (17&15) , we need to learn who we are as individual adults . Hopefully this time will give us that and maybe down the line he’ll decide that we can try again, this time knowing what life is like without each other and knowing who we are as individuals.

Thank you so much for listening, it really really helps me to take a step back and see it from a different view.