Hi Pearce,

Thank you so much for telling me your story. & I’m sorry this happened to you. Thank you also for your kind words.

I do understand what you’re saying & I have considered this myself. However, this would mean I would need to pay the monthly payment myself which although this is doable, it would make my quality of life – being able to go out & treat myself, go for meals and drinks with the new man in life – a little more difficult & tight.. therefore the option to pay this myself is a last resort really as I would end up suffering in other ways. If it was money I had given him in a chunk, then I would write this off but as it’s in the form of a loan it makes a small difference.

Hi Anita,

He has paid monthly on time ever since taking the loan out. There is about 2 years left on the loan…. When the loan gets lower I don’t mind paying for it & wiping this slate but at the moment as it is quite a lot of money for me to fork out.

Hi Inky,

Thank you – I will not be doing this again.. ever! Lol