Dear Malley:

The thoughts you detailed in your last post are all realistic, so there is nothing to change about them. What I am understanding from your last post is the “one Area” (in the title of your thread) when you get so emotional,  it is not strictly the daughter arriving with your boyfriend, it is also the fact that he just filed for divorce a whole year after his separation, that he is very busy with his business, that he lives so far away, that you see him rarely, and that you need much more than what you are experiencing with him.

The daughter arriving is taking away from the very little that you have with him.

Question is the divorce- if he keeps taking it very slowly, as I understand he is- how long will it last, what are his plans in this regard?

anita