Anita,

About the filing for divorce, he is going slowly. He says he needs to file or get it started quite a few times but he never does. You are correct about the statements about how I just don’t have enough time with him. He is coming back here more than he used to, but I need more continuity and for us to be more a daily part of one another’s life. I believe he wants that too.

He is very good to me and I can tell he cares deeply for me. I just don’t like the long distance relationship much longer. I know we wouldn’t break apart for anything, though. I think that is why I get so frustrated. I know I have to just try to be happy the way it is. Most of the time I am, but every now and then I get upset. I guess there aren’t any real answers but it has helped to talk about it.