Hi Hang:

Thank you for writing and letting us know what has been going on. It sounds like you are handling this in a very mature manner, and I’m proud of you. Now, if only I can do the same in my relationships, they would not be so short lived, chaotic, intense and turbulent. Hopefully, things will get better after my intensive DBT therapy and 12 step programs. I try to have faith.

Please keep us informed of any more progress and updates, but it sounds like you are on the right track toward a healthier relationship, and always remember to make yourself number 1.