Heartbrokengurl,

I had this same exact situation happen to me. Actually twice. The first guy was seeing another female and I found out only because of his behavior and how he’d disappear on the weekends and was just very vague. I asked him and he finally admitted he was “talking” to someone else. Even though how hard I tried that just didn’t sit well with me and I had to end it. We weren’t dating, we weren’t official, same situation as you. Just the thought of it made me ill and I believe when your “talking” to another person you shouldn’t be sexual with them to begin with. He was basically playing both of us is how I felt and ended it.

The second person I started seeing became sexual after the 2nd date. He was not seeing another person and was honest about that but we just ended up not having the same goals and desires as one another and I ended the relationship. He was also a closet alcoholic I found out.

If I were you I’d be nervous and anxious as well, you have every right to be. I don’t think I’d continue the relationship because you just met and people do lie… even though you feel as if he really cares for you. If he really truly cared, he wouldn’t be seeing another person and also having sex with them. I believe when you find the right person, you can ONLY think and be with that person.