Dear Anita,

I’m really thankful for your idea. It seems very simple and viable option.

I just need to be able to keep this emotional distance and not get involve or talk into a relationship again. Sometimes I get to angry at him for everything and we end up fighting. I even got out of social media because I get jealous and frustraded that he didn’t change at all.

So at first I’ve tried to cut all contact, but I couldn’t mantain that, maybe because of my emotional attachment. As I said, I no longer have any friends. My family is very supportive but I feel alone most of the time, thats probably why I miss him so much.

I’m also trying therapy and meditation in order to forgive him and myself. But most of all, I need to let go this expectations.