Hi Lily,

You don’t have to forgive him or let go of your resentment. Your job is to say, “I’m going to CONTINUE to live the best, fullest life possible, Universe, especially and more so when things go wrong AFTER I’ve done with my magical adventures!!” Why is it that when we have the time of our lives a crappy experience hits us square in the face when we get home? No. This is what you do:

1. Quit working in the soul destroying pub. Work in a bookstore or coffee shop where the people are more intellectually depressed at least.

2. Go on another fabulous adventure. No, make it TWO fabulous trips/adventures. No, make it three.

3. When you come back if the Universe dares make your life more difficult upon your return, go on another trip, even if you have to become a hitch hiking hippie.

4. When you finally return and all is well with the world (after teaching the Universe a sound lesson and giving it a good thrashing by your audacity to have a good time while honoring your friend’s memory), you will find that you have forgotten all about that poor guy stuck on the other side of the world with some girl who he’s (probably) miserable with by now but would never admit to anyone.

Blessings,

Inky

• This reply was modified 7 years, 6 months ago by Inky.