Hello. I am so sorry you have to go through this. You don’t deserve it. I am going through a breakup too. What I realized is that guys are stupid. You give them everything you have and then they decide that they want to be single. The ones that do that are just kids. You say he is mature, but if he was so mature he wouldn’t give up on you and this beautiful relationship just because he wants to be single. Maybe he wants to see what is like to be with someone else, meet other people, just out of curiosity… and immaturity. It feels unfinished because you still have hope and because you remained “friends” kind of, I mean you didn’t hurt each other in the end, which of course gives you some hope. I am hoping that my ex-bf will realize what he has lost and that he will regret it and come to me, but I don’t think he’ll ever do that. We, girls, are so emotional and give everything in a relationship, to a guy, we just give our all, and then if it ends we hope and hope and hope. I think that even if he will realize he will not come back. They are more rational, they stick to what they decide, they are not that emotionally unstable as we are… They are more detached, even though they have feelings for us, they are detached somehow. And even if after some months he will be like … man, that wasn’t worth it or I really lost something beautiful… he will not come back, he will just move on. I don’t want to insult them when I say they are stupid, and I’m not saying it as an insult, but they are stupid… Meaning that they don’t truly realize anything ever, they’re like kids… which is really annoying.