Dear Cloud:

It is my understanding then, that you are unsure: on one hand you want to move on  (“she understands now that I need to move on and only be just friends do to distance and neither is ready to commit themselves in a relationship”) and on the other hand, you will be visiting her hoping that during the visit you and her will develop a romantic/ physically intimate relationship, at least during the visit. And take it from there, correct?

If this is correct, make sure she knows of your conflicting motivations before you travel, the two conflicting motivations are:

1. To move on, be friends with her and meet another woman, locally,  for a romantic/ physically intimate relationship.

2. To visit her hoping she and you will have a romantic/ physically intimate relationship during the visit, and take it from there.

anita