Kaylon,

These are my thoughts only….first I’m assuming you are of a younger age..I always think friends first…boys are secondary. If she is one of your *best friends*, than I think you should honour that friendship….I realize your bf is from out of town, but you could of postponed your visit..or had told him you have priorities and you have to honour them. As far as coming out and telling people who her sexual beliefs are, I think she wanted you there as support. Graduation parties are rare..it’s a time to celebrate and congratulate of one’s accomplishments. I would suggest an apology letter because you weren’t there as support when your bf needed you. I’m not saying your in the wrong…but most young females will abandon friends over guys.