Dear Vivi:

There is the group of individuals all together and there are changing combinations of individuals spending together in twos, away from the whole group. Some of the twos are in romantic relationships, some are close friends. It is confusing, for me, to follow what is happening.

Maybe the whole group should get together for a group discussion so to… map who is dating whom and who are just friends at the current time? Your ex boyfriend-now-friend (as I understand it to be) will have the opportunity to declare his romantic interest in you in front of the group, you will announce your intentions, and maybe a relationship between you and him, a romantic relationship, that is, will re-start right there and then and everyone will be clear about it.

anita