Hi Chau,

I think I have a different perspective. After reading your posts, you seem to be very conflicted over your ex, even dreaming about her, you also mentioned you have cut some ties off with some women that you came to care about. I think it is because you need to have some closure with your ex. I understand she cheating on you, but I think you are thinking of her because of possibly some good qualities and memories you had with her.

What could hurt just meeting her out for a quick cup of coffee? You may notice her, for who who she is today, and seeing her now, you will see that the old feelings of her have gone away. Once we have been away from an ex for awhile, it is very hard to re-capture the old flame, and chemistry. This way you will have closure, and can move on with these new women without severing ties with them, because you won’t be thinking about your ex as much. Just meet her for coffee, wish her well, tell her you have moved on and wish her happiness. Keep us posted.