Dear dadari83:

Without more information, since he will not provide that for you, focus on the present, on the interactions you have to have with him because he is the father of your child. Focus on the well-being of your child, on your and his parenting of your child, see to it that it is done right.

I suppose you felt better when you thought he was gay and worse since he has a girlfriend because now you think that you were not loved, not because of his sexual orientation, but because he didn’t love you. Is that it?

anita