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Hi lost123,
I hope you didn’t engage sexually with this other woman. Sex is a very strong glue that can further activate chemical bonds in people.
Hey, I feel you.
But what invariably happens is you will, in as soon as a few years, see the other woman who you had so much in common with. And notice that she’s not really like you anymore. That there’s not a lot of that initial spark. That you are bewildered that you had any romantic feelings for her at all.
You will also discover (especially if the two women are in the same room) that your wife, the old, the familial, will look better and better in comparison. And is, actually, more like you on a spiritual level. Classier. Rock solid. Awesome.
Who needs travel? Everything’s right here at home, after all.
Inky