Hi Rox,

I remember your earlier e-mails about him,,about the beautiful way he was toward you. I do think it is wrong after only 4 months of dating that someone tells you “you are the love of their life” because then you see a “happily ever after” with them, and I felt he led you on with false hope way too soon in the relationship.

I would say, he wants to move on. There is nothing more you can do or say. I don’t think at this point, while you are emotionally charged, that being “friends” with him is a good idea, as he has made it clear, no chances of getting back together. I would just take this time to work on yourself, emotional outbursts, etc, so it does not get in the way of a future relationship. I was hoping he would think you are getting some help with emotional issues and try to reconcile, but for whatever reason, he seems to want to move on. I would not contact him anymore, as this will only provide further disappointment for you. I’m so sorry about all this. I know how much you loved him.